As kidney beans would sprout after being watered and cherry blossoms bloom again upon spring, we all have that cherry blossom-like habit and characters that are yet to be unbinded.
Human behaviors tend to change as they grow with more exposure, experience and responsibilities. They cut ties and make new friends. These characters are developed as they go further into dealing with what life offers them.
In life, we meet people from different classes, profiles, religions, beliefs and ideas. Relating with them will not be an easy task. Trying not to harbour any unintended grudges and if, settled amicably which enhance personal development and strengthened the mutual bond. Meeting different people and relating with them with mutual respect and understanding helped alot.
As humans, there are many boundaries we dare not cross, many of my our policies that we violated and standards that we were unable to maintain, But then, there are many other adaptive behaviors that were developed.
There are people who never had much experience relating with people or the opportunity to interact with them intensively. Due to one reason or another, they are not chanced to relate with people. It might be because of work, comfort or the person being an introvert.
Relating with people might bring them out of their comfort zones.
As I learnt, relating with people requires much sacrifice from both ends. Unrequited love, unanswered yawning, disregard for others and distrust are barriers to good companionship. There are occassions when feelings are not reciprocated. Not a one-sided friendship but a bonds that are not shared equally. But then, severing those bonds doesn’t justify that.
The kind of people you relate with will definitely define you. They affect the choice you make, ideas and even your morals. The brotherhood, sense of belonging, exposure, hypocrisy and demoralizations I experienced then has a great influence on me, enabling to have deeper insights and deduce when to quit. They enhance how I priotize people and also keeping up to their nuisance.
Yes, friends in need are friends iindeed! They are brothers from different mothers. But it is of great disappointment seeing how ties are severed and friends are becoming strangers. Thought we all promised as friends to be together through thick and thin? Oh! I almost forgot we’re all humans.
There are moments we make friends for significant purposes. At Least, we don’t know whose candle will rekindle ours. That is why it is even necessary to be fair and loyal. If is true that we rise by lifting others, what will happen when we drop or let them down? We should learn to do things for old times’ sake. Bygones should be bygones. Who doesn’t want to be forgiven? If we will miss people so much after their death, why don’t we just let them be aware when they are alive?
As kidney beans wouldn’t sprout if not watered and cherry blossom only bloom durung spring, the experiences and exposure humans acquire are part of the mechanism that awake the cherry blossom-like characters in them. As they relate, they gradually develop habits that enhance survival. Thus, unbinding the recessive habits in them.
