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Like the Yoruba adage, ‘eni ti o ba da’mi si iwaju a te le tutu’ an English aphorism says that he who seeks equity must do equity.
I think it always holds true that we all desire what is good- whether we are deserving of this is secondary. This is a natural human quality. We crave pleasure and seek it while we detest pain and avoid it. In the same vein, we all crave a darling partner who epitomizes our preferences. This doesn’t come easy and that is why I believe that you must be a moshaallah life partner if you want one.
Know that the least important thing about you is your beauty (physical looks or body structure) and that the most important thing is invisible- the purity of your thoughts, the depth of your knowledge and the strength of your attitude and character.
Although brothers are not excluded, I focus on sisters for the purpose of this piece.
It is not out of place that you want a husband who is loving, caring, neat, knowledgeable and God-fearing but have you ever for once assessed yourself. Do you truly think you are worthy of such a brother? Or are you the type that is lost in the euphoria that your beauty or looks is all that matters?
Know for sure that beauty catches a brother’s attention but partly not wholly. Well! Let’s say beauty attracts him but whatever you have got to offer either keeps him for the rest of your life or drives him away.
Therefore, I beseech you, my humble sister, to get the basics right before you seek ‘Mr. right’. Learn and equip yourself with the appropriate knowledge and skills needed. This doesn’t necessarily mean you should be a ‘career woman’ whose only focus is her life, not her kids’ or husband’s. What I am saying is that you be a professional in your field and as well be the best home maker and a wonderful husband keeper.
Remember, there are so many runners on the track and only the fastest get to win the race.
Is it not ridiculous how many sisters want a moshaallah brother with very few really working to become moshaallah themselves? If all you ever do is pray and crave a moshaallah brother in your life without corresponding effort to being one, I’m afraid you have started a futile journey. Even the Yoruba know that ‘egbe eye ni eye n wo to’. Success will always attract success.
Dear sister, who wants a moshaallah brother to ask for her hand in marriage, why not strive first to be that moshaallah sister any right-thinking man will cross oceans to marry? See, there is more to marital life than love (mostly ephemeral) and your beauty. You need to explore your God-given potentials as well.
Look here, every man wants a wife who will think ten times faster than he does, desires a knowledgeable partner (academically and Islamically), a home builder and a professional they can be proud of.
Understand that every right-thinking man appreciates a woman of substance and potentials although their crazy ego sometimes makes them conceal it.
It is high time you dropped this flabby disposition that men alone need to be knowledgeable while you wait anxiously for him to fall into your lovely beautiful arms.
Remember, if he must respect and not only love you, you must have something of great value. Your union is meant to last a lifetime. The joys and sweetness of marriage aren’t given carte blanche, you must bring something to the table.
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This is wonderful and indeed an intellectual write up to gear we sisters. May Allah continue to increase your intellectual prowess (aameen)
This is a good write-up, may Allah increase and bless the writer's knowledge. Brothers too, take ur clue from this piece where it affects u
What an advice!!!
maa sha Allaah Baarakallahu feehi it is a priceless advice
Nice piece!… Barakallah feeh
بارك الله فيه
Jazakallahu khaki for this wonderful piece. May Allah continue to bless you
Jazakallahu khaki for this wonderful piece. May Allah continue to bless you
Jazakallahu khaki for this wonderful piece. May Allah continue to bless you
Inspiring…. Baarokallohu fiik